Anger

"The root of anger is the perception that something has been taken. Something is owed to you. And now a debt-to-debtor relationship has been established."

We should really stop to think about this: "How long are you going to allow the people who have hurt you to control your life?"

Image result for Root of AngerWhen we stay angry, upset, in a rut, in our feelings...we are giving up our power, we are giving our energy and our healing ability away. We are giving up control.

Why would we want to give that kind of authority over to anyone who has abused, mistreated, manipulated or harmed us? 

This is written in God's word repeatedly for a reason: "forgive them seventy times seventy. And remember them or the harm they've done no more." 

Forgive, clean out the clutter and press forward. It's not for them, it's for you.

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