Fact: the devil is a liar! Trying to take matters into our own hands does not bring us closer to being like God. That's not our role, or His expectation of us. Every time we try to control our circumstances, our future, and people around us, we are trying to take on a role that wasn't meant for us. We stress ourselves out (unnecessarily) and become overwhelmed with frustration. We stepped into a role that wasn't ours. We told God to take a back seat and tried it! We are not meant to control things outside of our circle of influence, we can only control how we respond, how we deal with them. We are meant to only control ourselves. All these situations are intentional and meant to shape us, help us grow, strengthen us and our character. They are meant to help us gain wisdom and understanding. Let's let go of trying to do the impossible!
"The root of anger is the perception that something has been taken. Something is owed to you. And now a debt-to-debtor relationship has been established." We should really stop to think about this: "How long are you going to allow the people who have hurt you to control your life?" When we stay angry, upset, in a rut, in our feelings...we are giving up our power, we are giving our energy and our healing ability away. We are giving up control. Why would we want to give that kind of authority over to anyone who has abused, mistreated, manipulated or harmed us? This is written in God's word repeatedly for a reason: "forgive them seventy times seventy. And remember them or the harm they've done no more." Forgive, clean out the clutter and press forward. It's not for them, it's for you.
Family is like Branches on a tree...our lives may grow in different directions but our roots will always stay as one. So, no matter the ups and downs you face...(1 Timothy 5:8); remember: because of family you will always come out stronger, brighter and better than before!
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